Traditional feedback focuses on personalities. Flow-First feedback focuses on the System. Our goal is to identify behaviors that create "Coordination Tax" or "Capacity Traps" and course-correct them surgically.
Anchor the feedback in a specific time and place to avoid generalisations.
Describe the observable action without adding judgement or "why" you think they did it.
Instead of "how I felt," explain how the behavior impacted the team's capacity or the system's flow.
| Personalised Feedback (HR Standard) | Systemic Feedback (Flow-First) |
|---|---|
| "You're always late to meetings and it's disrespectful." | "When you joined 10 mins late, we had to restart the context-setting, which cost the team 15 minutes of collective capacity." |
| "I feel like you aren't a team player in Slack." | "When you don't use threads for technical discussions, it creates a notification storm that interrupts flow for 12 other people." |
Always end with a request to optimise the system, not just "change a person."